So it's all done now. I'm moving to LA. I'm pretty fucking excited. I'm also excited to live where the superconference is taking place and to chill with all of the instructors again... last SC in Vegas was insane!
The place in LA is sick, were right were all the celebs live, with pool hot tub and all that shit, it's the way to live in Cali.
However... all along I've been planning on still keeping an apartment here in Chicago, and due to an unexpected series of events my would-be chicago roommates won't be able to get an apartment here with me. I'm writing this post to see if there are any Chicago guys that have a decent apt and want to rent me a room. I only plan on being there occasionally and chances are I could increase your game dramatically :).
If you have something like this let me know.. send me an email with pics to dahunter@lovesystems.com asap, as I'm out of here in less than a week.
Cheers,
Dahunter
Tuesday, September 9, 2008
Friday, May 30, 2008
Miami
Woo! I'm excited, I'm going to Miami this weekend, I've never really gotten to party there much, and I'm going for a quick personal trip so I'm looking for good places to go out to and some fun people to hang out with.
If you're in Miami or you know someone there that's cool to hang out with email me at dahunter [@] lovesystems.com
Thanks!
Dahunter
If you're in Miami or you know someone there that's cool to hang out with email me at dahunter [@] lovesystems.com
Thanks!
Dahunter
Sunday, March 23, 2008
I'm Back... with some goodies
Sorry guys I haven't posted in a while, I've been busy trying to become the richest man on the planet and my greedy ass hasn't been putting that much time into adding value to my blog, but I'm back, and I have some good shitz for you guys.
This is the transcript that I found for a hb10 that I closed almost a year ago, she's one of the hottest girls I've dated and I ran a pretty intense push pull on her, which happened to be all through facebook. I found the logs so I give them here straight up with just the names modified. My game has gotten much more solid since then but there's tons of good stuff in here that can be learned from.
This is from the time I saw her (I met her through her friend and we went out and I didn't game her) to the time we went out on a day2 and I closed her. My text is in bold and hers is plain italic. Enjoy.
you dork, I actually was drunk enough to like you for one day and you end up hooking up with some dude.
You and your weirdly shaped pointy tongue are dorks.
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and who was it i hooked up with? if u consider hooking up kissing on the cheek then...well i am a hoe. please dont write me messages when u are so obviously drunk.
ps- dont diss my tounge till you tried it punk
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listen dorkface, please don't write me messages when you've so obviously been smoking excessive amounts of weed. it's not my problem you have liked to hang out with guys that are complete idiots in the past.
If you think hooking up with someone makes you a hoe you’ve obviously been mixing that weed with a lot of alcohol since everyone does it and it’s something that can be change your life if you do it with the right person.
Also, I will diss your weird pointy shaped tongue all I want. In fact, I would try it the first chance I had just so I could diss it some more. So please, stop being such a nerd.
[dahunter]
p.s. I know I will regret this, but since I know you just broke up with your boyfriend and that can be hard at times, I’ll let you hang out with me and show you a good time. On Sunday me and a few friends are all going snowboarding so if you’re not going to embarrass me with your supreme dorkiness you are welcome to come.
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dear fagbag,
i appreciate the offer of snowboarding. you may be surprized to know that i indeed have snowboarded before. Yup- I spent the whole afternoon sliding down a hill on my ass with my legs and arms flailing about. everyone was jealous of my mad skills. I don't wanna show you up so I think it would be best if i skipped it.
translation- i have to work :(
love,
pointy tounge
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dear dorkface,
Work on sunday? I think I just threw up a little bit in my mouth. You are indeed way more of a nerd that I had originally anticipaded.
If you want to hang out, let me know when you're free this week and if I am on crack at the time and feel like hanging out with a complete dork, I'll take you out and we'll have fun.
[dahunter]
p.s. you're like the worst kind of nerd there is: The one that doesn't even know how to spell, tongue is spelled TONGUE not TOUNGE. Retard.
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i am a bad speller, poor, and have deformities on my face... why do you want to hang out with me again?
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I don't know, it could be because I think you're beautiful and I like you even with your deformed face and your dorky misspellings. It could be because I liked you since the first moment I saw you and I want to get to know you better... but in reality it's more like I like doing charity work with retards so I consider this as paying my dues.
Love [dahunter]
p.s. I'm an asshole, I'm obnoxious and I usually think I'm the coolest shit since John Travolta on Greece... are u sure you're up for hanging out with me?
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well my dear...
in case you hadn't noticed, i had a boyfriend for quit some time. (2 1/2 ys) me and said boyfriend broke up about two weeks ago and my heart is crushed like sandy from Greese... you,being like john T., can surly relate. To make things worse, the ex handles being hurt by making other people (me) feel like an insecure and worthless pile of shit. thus, i would love to hang out with you but i am warning you i am NOT in the mood to just fuckaround with guys. I can not handle beings a little object to someone rightr now. what am i getting at here? u seem like a hilarious kid but when it comes to girls- definitly only in it for the nookie. if you can hang out with me, sans the nookie, well then yes, lets hang out. so... are you sure your up for hanging out with me?
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First of all let me start by saying you need to stop watching that much MTV… who uses the word “nookie” anyways? Second of all, behind the twitchiness and the awkwardness there might be a really cool girl waiting to come out… if that’s the case I can’t make any promises since I’ve never been the “let’s just be friends” kinda guy and I’m not about to start now if I enjoy hanging out with you.
Having said that, although I’ve never been dumped before I understand where you’re coming from and the last thing I want is to hurt someone that’s already in the middle of a bad breakup. I must add that although yes I enjoy having sex as much as the next person (or maybe a bit more, but don’t blame me for being better at it than most people) no I’m not just about that and I actually do look for someone I can hang out that is both my friend and my girl, so please… stop being such a dork.
All I offer you is good conversation and a good time. Hopefully you have a good old valid fake Id so we can go have a drink at a bar/restaurant, hang out and forget about all the bullshit and just have fun. Let me know how that sounds to you and when you would be free if you like the plan.
[dahunter]
p.s. “Greece” – not “Greese”. Come on you gotta be kidding me.
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1.) in case you haven't noticed, i rebel against spell check. stop making fun of my mis-spellings because.. well the jokes would just never end.
2.) i just drunkenly left mypurse in a cab with my good ID so all i have left is my ok ID..makes me look chinese but it usually works
3.) don't make fun of me for leaving my purse in a cab. just stop. I'm kicking myself for it.
4.) even though you won't make any promises I'll make you one- i promise you have to be "just my friend" for a lil bit. sorry :(
5.) i don't watch MTV... stupid dribble
6.) busy week for me till weekend
7.)...... i like eatting :)
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aw- am i one of the "stupid girls" you mentioned in your obnoxious rambling note? :(
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First of all, who leaves their purse in a cab? Seriously, are you hitting the pipe?
Second of all, I’ve heard it’s pretty hard to find a good fake ID, and you just leave it on the cab? I wasn’t consciously referring to you when I wrote my awesome note (that everyone loves BTW) but after the misspellings, the purse and the fact that you used the word “nookie” in a sentence… I think you heading straight into the list.
Third of all, I said IF behind the twitchiness and the nerd façade I would see a cool girl then I wouldn’t make any promises. So far those things are blindingly loud, so please… don’t assume all I want to do is sleep with you. I can’t do that without knowing what kind of a pointy tongued dork I’m getting involved with first.
Ps. My weekend is full. I’d invite you Snowboarding on Sunday again but I’m assuming you are lame and have work. Hopefully I’ll see your dorky ass next week like monday or something.
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let me first point out that i just happened to log onto facebook right after you sent me a gay message. coincidence hunny- don't let this feed your already insanly large ego.
and yes, i do assume every guy who isn't yet in assisted care wants to sleep with me. not becuase of how i look, but becuase God made every man a horndog who wants to sleep with every girl. you were blessed with being crowned king of the horndogs.
and unfortunitly, i do have to work on sunday. some people have these silly things called jobs to pay for these stupid little nucinces called "rent" and "food" and, my personal favorite, "clothing". FYI- i work a lot. more than any normal person should want to.
so in conclusion, since your weekend is jam packed with whatever it is you do, i guess I'll have to wait to see you and figure out what it is that is actually making me want talk to you in the first place.
PS- stop being a facebook fag and use a phone. technology is your friend [dahunter]. [gives out her phone number]
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PSS- its GREASE. dumbass.
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First of all, I keep getting surprised of how much of a dork you really are. Yeah, my ego is that bigger because you replied to my message right after I sent it… dumbass.
Second of all, you’ve been obviously hanging out with retards with no options way too much. So please, if I’m giving you a chance to hang out with me… at least TRY to cover up the obvious nerdiness that so clearly defines you. I’m willing to help you get out of nerd ville but I have to see at least see some sort of potencial (which I am yet to see).
Third of all, I wish you a happy valentine’s day, for a second I wished I had let you be my valentine girl so you could finally stop being such a dork, but unfortunately this is the busiest night of the year for me so I honestly feel sorry that you won’t have that opportunity today.
I’ll give you a call soon dumbass. See if you actually impress me through there.
[dahunter].
Ps. It’s “because” not becuase. It’s “unfortunately” not unfortunitly. There’s no stop in you isn’t it?
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deer [dahunter],
i am shooked that yuo think i am a baad spellr. i hav allwys spellt wundurfully! plaese stop makeing up thees obnoxcios lies abut me. They are unkalled for and hurt my fealings.
thanc you,
[her name misspelled]
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Oh my God, you're like sesame street... on crack
I'll give you a call tomorrow before I head out snowboarding, I cant wait to see this.
After this I just called her, we setup a time to get together and the rest was history, we dated for a couple of months... great girl.
Cheers,
Dahunter
This is the transcript that I found for a hb10 that I closed almost a year ago, she's one of the hottest girls I've dated and I ran a pretty intense push pull on her, which happened to be all through facebook. I found the logs so I give them here straight up with just the names modified. My game has gotten much more solid since then but there's tons of good stuff in here that can be learned from.
This is from the time I saw her (I met her through her friend and we went out and I didn't game her) to the time we went out on a day2 and I closed her. My text is in bold and hers is plain italic. Enjoy.
you dork, I actually was drunk enough to like you for one day and you end up hooking up with some dude.
You and your weirdly shaped pointy tongue are dorks.
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and who was it i hooked up with? if u consider hooking up kissing on the cheek then...well i am a hoe. please dont write me messages when u are so obviously drunk.
ps- dont diss my tounge till you tried it punk
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listen dorkface, please don't write me messages when you've so obviously been smoking excessive amounts of weed. it's not my problem you have liked to hang out with guys that are complete idiots in the past.
If you think hooking up with someone makes you a hoe you’ve obviously been mixing that weed with a lot of alcohol since everyone does it and it’s something that can be change your life if you do it with the right person.
Also, I will diss your weird pointy shaped tongue all I want. In fact, I would try it the first chance I had just so I could diss it some more. So please, stop being such a nerd.
[dahunter]
p.s. I know I will regret this, but since I know you just broke up with your boyfriend and that can be hard at times, I’ll let you hang out with me and show you a good time. On Sunday me and a few friends are all going snowboarding so if you’re not going to embarrass me with your supreme dorkiness you are welcome to come.
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dear fagbag,
i appreciate the offer of snowboarding. you may be surprized to know that i indeed have snowboarded before. Yup- I spent the whole afternoon sliding down a hill on my ass with my legs and arms flailing about. everyone was jealous of my mad skills. I don't wanna show you up so I think it would be best if i skipped it.
translation- i have to work :(
love,
pointy tounge
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dear dorkface,
Work on sunday? I think I just threw up a little bit in my mouth. You are indeed way more of a nerd that I had originally anticipaded.
If you want to hang out, let me know when you're free this week and if I am on crack at the time and feel like hanging out with a complete dork, I'll take you out and we'll have fun.
[dahunter]
p.s. you're like the worst kind of nerd there is: The one that doesn't even know how to spell, tongue is spelled TONGUE not TOUNGE. Retard.
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i am a bad speller, poor, and have deformities on my face... why do you want to hang out with me again?
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I don't know, it could be because I think you're beautiful and I like you even with your deformed face and your dorky misspellings. It could be because I liked you since the first moment I saw you and I want to get to know you better... but in reality it's more like I like doing charity work with retards so I consider this as paying my dues.
Love [dahunter]
p.s. I'm an asshole, I'm obnoxious and I usually think I'm the coolest shit since John Travolta on Greece... are u sure you're up for hanging out with me?
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well my dear...
in case you hadn't noticed, i had a boyfriend for quit some time. (2 1/2 ys) me and said boyfriend broke up about two weeks ago and my heart is crushed like sandy from Greese... you,being like john T., can surly relate. To make things worse, the ex handles being hurt by making other people (me) feel like an insecure and worthless pile of shit. thus, i would love to hang out with you but i am warning you i am NOT in the mood to just fuckaround with guys. I can not handle beings a little object to someone rightr now. what am i getting at here? u seem like a hilarious kid but when it comes to girls- definitly only in it for the nookie. if you can hang out with me, sans the nookie, well then yes, lets hang out. so... are you sure your up for hanging out with me?
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First of all let me start by saying you need to stop watching that much MTV… who uses the word “nookie” anyways? Second of all, behind the twitchiness and the awkwardness there might be a really cool girl waiting to come out… if that’s the case I can’t make any promises since I’ve never been the “let’s just be friends” kinda guy and I’m not about to start now if I enjoy hanging out with you.
Having said that, although I’ve never been dumped before I understand where you’re coming from and the last thing I want is to hurt someone that’s already in the middle of a bad breakup. I must add that although yes I enjoy having sex as much as the next person (or maybe a bit more, but don’t blame me for being better at it than most people) no I’m not just about that and I actually do look for someone I can hang out that is both my friend and my girl, so please… stop being such a dork.
All I offer you is good conversation and a good time. Hopefully you have a good old valid fake Id so we can go have a drink at a bar/restaurant, hang out and forget about all the bullshit and just have fun. Let me know how that sounds to you and when you would be free if you like the plan.
[dahunter]
p.s. “Greece” – not “Greese”. Come on you gotta be kidding me.
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1.) in case you haven't noticed, i rebel against spell check. stop making fun of my mis-spellings because.. well the jokes would just never end.
2.) i just drunkenly left mypurse in a cab with my good ID so all i have left is my ok ID..makes me look chinese but it usually works
3.) don't make fun of me for leaving my purse in a cab. just stop. I'm kicking myself for it.
4.) even though you won't make any promises I'll make you one- i promise you have to be "just my friend" for a lil bit. sorry :(
5.) i don't watch MTV... stupid dribble
6.) busy week for me till weekend
7.)...... i like eatting :)
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aw- am i one of the "stupid girls" you mentioned in your obnoxious rambling note? :(
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First of all, who leaves their purse in a cab? Seriously, are you hitting the pipe?
Second of all, I’ve heard it’s pretty hard to find a good fake ID, and you just leave it on the cab? I wasn’t consciously referring to you when I wrote my awesome note (that everyone loves BTW) but after the misspellings, the purse and the fact that you used the word “nookie” in a sentence… I think you heading straight into the list.
Third of all, I said IF behind the twitchiness and the nerd façade I would see a cool girl then I wouldn’t make any promises. So far those things are blindingly loud, so please… don’t assume all I want to do is sleep with you. I can’t do that without knowing what kind of a pointy tongued dork I’m getting involved with first.
Ps. My weekend is full. I’d invite you Snowboarding on Sunday again but I’m assuming you are lame and have work. Hopefully I’ll see your dorky ass next week like monday or something.
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let me first point out that i just happened to log onto facebook right after you sent me a gay message. coincidence hunny- don't let this feed your already insanly large ego.
and yes, i do assume every guy who isn't yet in assisted care wants to sleep with me. not becuase of how i look, but becuase God made every man a horndog who wants to sleep with every girl. you were blessed with being crowned king of the horndogs.
and unfortunitly, i do have to work on sunday. some people have these silly things called jobs to pay for these stupid little nucinces called "rent" and "food" and, my personal favorite, "clothing". FYI- i work a lot. more than any normal person should want to.
so in conclusion, since your weekend is jam packed with whatever it is you do, i guess I'll have to wait to see you and figure out what it is that is actually making me want talk to you in the first place.
PS- stop being a facebook fag and use a phone. technology is your friend [dahunter]. [gives out her phone number]
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PSS- its GREASE. dumbass.
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First of all, I keep getting surprised of how much of a dork you really are. Yeah, my ego is that bigger because you replied to my message right after I sent it… dumbass.
Second of all, you’ve been obviously hanging out with retards with no options way too much. So please, if I’m giving you a chance to hang out with me… at least TRY to cover up the obvious nerdiness that so clearly defines you. I’m willing to help you get out of nerd ville but I have to see at least see some sort of potencial (which I am yet to see).
Third of all, I wish you a happy valentine’s day, for a second I wished I had let you be my valentine girl so you could finally stop being such a dork, but unfortunately this is the busiest night of the year for me so I honestly feel sorry that you won’t have that opportunity today.
I’ll give you a call soon dumbass. See if you actually impress me through there.
[dahunter].
Ps. It’s “because” not becuase. It’s “unfortunately” not unfortunitly. There’s no stop in you isn’t it?
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deer [dahunter],
i am shooked that yuo think i am a baad spellr. i hav allwys spellt wundurfully! plaese stop makeing up thees obnoxcios lies abut me. They are unkalled for and hurt my fealings.
thanc you,
[her name misspelled]
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Oh my God, you're like sesame street... on crack
I'll give you a call tomorrow before I head out snowboarding, I cant wait to see this.
After this I just called her, we setup a time to get together and the rest was history, we dated for a couple of months... great girl.
Cheers,
Dahunter
Sunday, January 13, 2008
Interesting...
So I stole this new years resolution from my boy Jules Crew because it's so money, and it's paying off. The resolution is that I must start a conversation with anyone that's within arms reach of me at any point.
So the latest story I have is that I'm on my plane heading back to Chicago, and I start chatting up this lady that's sitting next to me.. turns out she's going through a divorce, and we talk about how she lives in Chicago and LA, and she wants to keep both houses... she's prolly divorcing some rich guy.
I start telling her about myself and start DHVing myself for practice, and she starts telling me how her daughter is perfect for me, and she starts telling me how her daughter dated Tommy Lee, and she pulls out a picture of her daughter (who is really hot) and Tommy Lee. I'm like "that's cool"... but she thinks I'm the best thing since sliced bread, we land, and as soon as our plane lands she calls her daughter and tells her how she met this amazing guy that's perfect for her... I'm just sitting there listening kinda thinking "this is interesting" since everyone around us is noticing this... so she hands me the phone and suggests that I talk to her.
So I grab the phone and I start DHVing myself, everybody is standing up waiting for the line to move, and listening to my conversation being aware of what's going on at the same time... She asks for my number... I put her mom back on the phone, she's selling me hardcore. 5 minutes later I get a text from her. We've had a few texts back and forth now.
Besides that I've also managed to find out the lives of many cab drivers, the one that impacted me the most was this guy that took me to LAX... I wish I could have helped him... but offering the community to someone that doesn't ask for it by themselves is like trying to feed a person that's not hungry.. it doesn't work.
He told me that he was married, he hated his wife, and that he was only with her because of his son. Besides that he had had two affairs, and that after 6 years he was still in love with one of these girls, which dumped him for no reason (or no reason that he could see of course), which I suspect would be for lack of attraction... he was talking as if they had just broken up and how he wanted her back... 6 years later.
The other affair he had, the girl also dumped him, and he still wanted her as well even though she had a kid with someone else... like 4 years ago. He said he had a PHD in his country but he was stuck her being a cab driver because the money was better than over there and he was doing it for his kid.
What do you do for someone like this? Offering advice rarely works... I just asked him questions like... do you think there's nobody else better for you than this girl?.. trying to lead him to find the answer for himself... hopefully he breaks free of his limitations.
This was a huge eye opener of how we really change lives by giving guys more options... it frees you from the past if you know you can go out and meet new girls that could be better than any girl you've dated before. I try to connect to that feeling with the students in our bootcamps, but seeing it fully realized in a guy just made me see how big the changes we make in guys really are.
Once again I find myself being thankful for applying all the principles that I learn from the community, otherwise in another dimension, the chode dimension, I could have ended up being like that guy... lusting after a love from almost a decade ago.. I seriously hope he gets it one day... probably won't but hope I planted a seed for him to go out and look for it instead of make any excuses.
I guess my message for today is, be thankful that you're a part of this movement, most of us will never know what kind of awful faith we avoided just because we found this and decided to take control of our lives.
Cheers,
Dahunter
So the latest story I have is that I'm on my plane heading back to Chicago, and I start chatting up this lady that's sitting next to me.. turns out she's going through a divorce, and we talk about how she lives in Chicago and LA, and she wants to keep both houses... she's prolly divorcing some rich guy.
I start telling her about myself and start DHVing myself for practice, and she starts telling me how her daughter is perfect for me, and she starts telling me how her daughter dated Tommy Lee, and she pulls out a picture of her daughter (who is really hot) and Tommy Lee. I'm like "that's cool"... but she thinks I'm the best thing since sliced bread, we land, and as soon as our plane lands she calls her daughter and tells her how she met this amazing guy that's perfect for her... I'm just sitting there listening kinda thinking "this is interesting" since everyone around us is noticing this... so she hands me the phone and suggests that I talk to her.
So I grab the phone and I start DHVing myself, everybody is standing up waiting for the line to move, and listening to my conversation being aware of what's going on at the same time... She asks for my number... I put her mom back on the phone, she's selling me hardcore. 5 minutes later I get a text from her. We've had a few texts back and forth now.
Besides that I've also managed to find out the lives of many cab drivers, the one that impacted me the most was this guy that took me to LAX... I wish I could have helped him... but offering the community to someone that doesn't ask for it by themselves is like trying to feed a person that's not hungry.. it doesn't work.
He told me that he was married, he hated his wife, and that he was only with her because of his son. Besides that he had had two affairs, and that after 6 years he was still in love with one of these girls, which dumped him for no reason (or no reason that he could see of course), which I suspect would be for lack of attraction... he was talking as if they had just broken up and how he wanted her back... 6 years later.
The other affair he had, the girl also dumped him, and he still wanted her as well even though she had a kid with someone else... like 4 years ago. He said he had a PHD in his country but he was stuck her being a cab driver because the money was better than over there and he was doing it for his kid.
What do you do for someone like this? Offering advice rarely works... I just asked him questions like... do you think there's nobody else better for you than this girl?.. trying to lead him to find the answer for himself... hopefully he breaks free of his limitations.
This was a huge eye opener of how we really change lives by giving guys more options... it frees you from the past if you know you can go out and meet new girls that could be better than any girl you've dated before. I try to connect to that feeling with the students in our bootcamps, but seeing it fully realized in a guy just made me see how big the changes we make in guys really are.
Once again I find myself being thankful for applying all the principles that I learn from the community, otherwise in another dimension, the chode dimension, I could have ended up being like that guy... lusting after a love from almost a decade ago.. I seriously hope he gets it one day... probably won't but hope I planted a seed for him to go out and look for it instead of make any excuses.
I guess my message for today is, be thankful that you're a part of this movement, most of us will never know what kind of awful faith we avoided just because we found this and decided to take control of our lives.
Cheers,
Dahunter
Saturday, January 12, 2008
LA, The Ultimate Shit Test and Closing a Model
So I’m in LA right now, and it’s been quite the eventful past two days. I came a day earlier to meetup with this girl, so I could release my inner beast on her. It was a great plan, it would have worked for both of us if it hadn’t been for one little detail: She shat herself while I was fucking her. Lol I can’t stop laughing even as I type this
That’s right gentlemen, I was fucking this girl soo hard she literally shat herself while I was fucking her. I’m not sure what’s the etiquette on this situation but my natural response was to take a shower and start cracking up.
For those of you that are wondering (hopefully not that many of you), the position was a variation of doggystyle, and it was normal vaginal intercourse, which makes it hard for me to wonder how exactly this happened.
So to summarize this, no I unfortunately didn’t pass this shit test, I don’t think I’ll be seeing this girl again as I’m not into that type of SHIT (no pun intended) and that was a dealbreaker for me.
What’s funny is that also, before that we were having sex and the sign to clean up the room was placed in the door and three maids walked in on us while we were on the missionary, revealing my precious ass.
So, moving along… fast forward to that same day (yesterday) but late at night. We’re at The Don’s bootcamp, we’re having a good time, we’re pushing the guys into sets, we’re doing demo’s for them to see, Tim from RSD is there who’s a cool guy… all is good.
It’s almost closing time, I’m talking to this girl that’s beautiful… she’s a model, she’s from Russia, as tall as I am, perfect body, perfect face, definetly fits into my category of “only open 9’s and 10’s”...
I opened her while she was talking to this guy, I suspect he’s a PUA because it’s the second set I’ve done that he has been in, I befriend him, and he befriends me back but I can tell he has some resentment against me for coming in his sets, which later he would prove I was right. Game is game and it’s all fair play, I don’t complain if a girl talks to another guy instead of me, I simply learn from it and move on.
So after opening sets of 10’s like a maniac for a long time, I really am beginning to get into that wavelength… it’s like 10’s are their own little subculture and you have to speak their language otherwise you’re not getting in… a lot of shit that I would before take as getting blown out I understand what they are saying and I understand the response they are looking for.
What I’m seeing is that as a guy, your job is to provide the framework for her to girl logic herself into sleeping with you… it’s not your job to want anything from her, she gets that too much and it’s a negative anchor on her, your job is to simply keep adding value and she will usually make the rest really easy for you.
Of course, like every legitimate hot girl, there are going to be orbiters. So you’re going to have to learn how to deal with them. It’s a pretty common theme, and their value radar goes on like a motherfucker when you get an interrupt, because if the other guy is higher value than you are you are out of that set like your were just shot out of a cannon. They are brutal on this, and in the same way, I’m becoming brutal on weeding out low value girls out of my life.
So the main thing I would say to handle an orbiter, is about vibe. I don’t think less of them, I don’t think more of them, I just honestly am friendly with them and engage them in a conversation. The key to it is to make it obvious that you don’t have an agenda, that you are there just to have fun, and if they try to ask about me and her (some guys will do this trying to tool you like: “are you guys dating?”), then I always go into complete bullshit mode. I’ll go into a roleplay something like this:
“Yeah me and this girl, we’re divorced… i’m not gonna lie, it was amazing for a while… but then she started drinking… a lot… she would get back home and hit me… there’s only so many times you can “fall of the stairs” you know… what was I supposed to tell my family?… and then the kids… she was always asking for “the check…. The check”… it got pretty bad… I mean if I only want to pay tuition for the first born of each marriage that should be legal right… I couldn’t handle her anymore so I just filed the divorce… and here we are now”
Something like that that just throws the vibe off in a funny way, you don’t have to go through the whole thing either you can just say… we’re divorced… and that’s enough of an answer as well.
That was a big thing for this girl since she got approached several times and I would just run something along those lines… the same guy that was talking to her when I opened her came back way later into the set, and did a stunt that hurt him really bad and upped my value a lot.
He came back to what I thought was inviting us to an afterparty… So I asked him where he was at, and he rudely said “the invitation is just for her… this is not for you” or something along those lines… and in 10 world being rude is a big sign of social miscalibration… he could have handled it way more diplomatically, like get us excited about it and maybe then saying something like “oh man sorry for the misunderstanding, the invite was only for her”… then it could have potentially worked.. but we were in a stage of really getting along and vibing really well and he came in like a sledge hammer, which me and the girl just looked at eachother and just basically eyecoded eachother like saying “what a weirdo”, which further enhanced our little world.
After this I bounced the girl inside the club to get a drink… I don’t know if you guys are relocating your sets but you guys have to move every set that you open… move it somewhere else and the vibe just gets better… seriously you have to move every single set that you open for you to get anywhere… don’t stay in the same location where you opened otherwise you are hurting yourself.
We did a couple shots of tequila, the place was closing, and The Don gave me the address of a taco place that’s amazing. We went there, she got opened a lot while we were there, and I was just being cool with all the guys, befriending them, which disarmed them at the same time.
I had a cab take us to her address, and this is where you have to play your cards right, I started talking about her roommates and would they say if I came in… I’m not really saying I’m coming in but I’m suggesting it already so she knows I’m thinking about it… we get there, I just get out of the cab and start disqualifying myself like “you’re roommates are prolly gonna be pissed if I come in”, but I’m out of the cab already so it doesn’t matter.. we sit on her stairway without getting in, and she suggests we go to my hotel instead… perfect… kinda… because I think the other instructor I’m rooming with is in there…
Of course I say nothing… I start to prepare to get a new room. And sure enough she asks me if I have a roommate, and I tell her it’s cool we’ll get a new room.. once we get here though, it turns out the hotel is sold out… so I just take her to our room, throughout this time she’s telling me how she can’t do this if there’s someone else there and bla bla, luckily our instructor (who I can’t remember his alias and I don’t want to put his name here) is not here, he must have pulled.
She mentions that I’m fat… and I’m like laughing because I don’t care but at the same time I know I need to get my ass in shape… I’m starting ju jitsu classes this next week and I’m also going back into my schedule of working out a lot, travelling a lot has thrown me off with non exercise and eating at crazy times unhealthy shit. I officially decided that I’m losing weight… but of course I laugh at her comment and mention how if I actually didn’t have a such a strong self esteem I would actually be offended.. she laughs, I’m sure that’s one of those comments that gets to her and improves the way she thinks about me anytime in the future.
Get to the room… take off all her clothes… this is what it’s all about… perfect breasts… perfect ass… her waist is soo thin it’s ridiculous… the sex was soo good, she was really flexible… this is what I got in the game for… good times.
Like my friend Mr M says “He who dares wins”.
Thanks for reading,
Dahunter
That’s right gentlemen, I was fucking this girl soo hard she literally shat herself while I was fucking her. I’m not sure what’s the etiquette on this situation but my natural response was to take a shower and start cracking up.
For those of you that are wondering (hopefully not that many of you), the position was a variation of doggystyle, and it was normal vaginal intercourse, which makes it hard for me to wonder how exactly this happened.
So to summarize this, no I unfortunately didn’t pass this shit test, I don’t think I’ll be seeing this girl again as I’m not into that type of SHIT (no pun intended) and that was a dealbreaker for me.
What’s funny is that also, before that we were having sex and the sign to clean up the room was placed in the door and three maids walked in on us while we were on the missionary, revealing my precious ass.
So, moving along… fast forward to that same day (yesterday) but late at night. We’re at The Don’s bootcamp, we’re having a good time, we’re pushing the guys into sets, we’re doing demo’s for them to see, Tim from RSD is there who’s a cool guy… all is good.
It’s almost closing time, I’m talking to this girl that’s beautiful… she’s a model, she’s from Russia, as tall as I am, perfect body, perfect face, definetly fits into my category of “only open 9’s and 10’s”...
I opened her while she was talking to this guy, I suspect he’s a PUA because it’s the second set I’ve done that he has been in, I befriend him, and he befriends me back but I can tell he has some resentment against me for coming in his sets, which later he would prove I was right. Game is game and it’s all fair play, I don’t complain if a girl talks to another guy instead of me, I simply learn from it and move on.
So after opening sets of 10’s like a maniac for a long time, I really am beginning to get into that wavelength… it’s like 10’s are their own little subculture and you have to speak their language otherwise you’re not getting in… a lot of shit that I would before take as getting blown out I understand what they are saying and I understand the response they are looking for.
What I’m seeing is that as a guy, your job is to provide the framework for her to girl logic herself into sleeping with you… it’s not your job to want anything from her, she gets that too much and it’s a negative anchor on her, your job is to simply keep adding value and she will usually make the rest really easy for you.
Of course, like every legitimate hot girl, there are going to be orbiters. So you’re going to have to learn how to deal with them. It’s a pretty common theme, and their value radar goes on like a motherfucker when you get an interrupt, because if the other guy is higher value than you are you are out of that set like your were just shot out of a cannon. They are brutal on this, and in the same way, I’m becoming brutal on weeding out low value girls out of my life.
So the main thing I would say to handle an orbiter, is about vibe. I don’t think less of them, I don’t think more of them, I just honestly am friendly with them and engage them in a conversation. The key to it is to make it obvious that you don’t have an agenda, that you are there just to have fun, and if they try to ask about me and her (some guys will do this trying to tool you like: “are you guys dating?”), then I always go into complete bullshit mode. I’ll go into a roleplay something like this:
“Yeah me and this girl, we’re divorced… i’m not gonna lie, it was amazing for a while… but then she started drinking… a lot… she would get back home and hit me… there’s only so many times you can “fall of the stairs” you know… what was I supposed to tell my family?… and then the kids… she was always asking for “the check…. The check”… it got pretty bad… I mean if I only want to pay tuition for the first born of each marriage that should be legal right… I couldn’t handle her anymore so I just filed the divorce… and here we are now”
Something like that that just throws the vibe off in a funny way, you don’t have to go through the whole thing either you can just say… we’re divorced… and that’s enough of an answer as well.
That was a big thing for this girl since she got approached several times and I would just run something along those lines… the same guy that was talking to her when I opened her came back way later into the set, and did a stunt that hurt him really bad and upped my value a lot.
He came back to what I thought was inviting us to an afterparty… So I asked him where he was at, and he rudely said “the invitation is just for her… this is not for you” or something along those lines… and in 10 world being rude is a big sign of social miscalibration… he could have handled it way more diplomatically, like get us excited about it and maybe then saying something like “oh man sorry for the misunderstanding, the invite was only for her”… then it could have potentially worked.. but we were in a stage of really getting along and vibing really well and he came in like a sledge hammer, which me and the girl just looked at eachother and just basically eyecoded eachother like saying “what a weirdo”, which further enhanced our little world.
After this I bounced the girl inside the club to get a drink… I don’t know if you guys are relocating your sets but you guys have to move every set that you open… move it somewhere else and the vibe just gets better… seriously you have to move every single set that you open for you to get anywhere… don’t stay in the same location where you opened otherwise you are hurting yourself.
We did a couple shots of tequila, the place was closing, and The Don gave me the address of a taco place that’s amazing. We went there, she got opened a lot while we were there, and I was just being cool with all the guys, befriending them, which disarmed them at the same time.
I had a cab take us to her address, and this is where you have to play your cards right, I started talking about her roommates and would they say if I came in… I’m not really saying I’m coming in but I’m suggesting it already so she knows I’m thinking about it… we get there, I just get out of the cab and start disqualifying myself like “you’re roommates are prolly gonna be pissed if I come in”, but I’m out of the cab already so it doesn’t matter.. we sit on her stairway without getting in, and she suggests we go to my hotel instead… perfect… kinda… because I think the other instructor I’m rooming with is in there…
Of course I say nothing… I start to prepare to get a new room. And sure enough she asks me if I have a roommate, and I tell her it’s cool we’ll get a new room.. once we get here though, it turns out the hotel is sold out… so I just take her to our room, throughout this time she’s telling me how she can’t do this if there’s someone else there and bla bla, luckily our instructor (who I can’t remember his alias and I don’t want to put his name here) is not here, he must have pulled.
She mentions that I’m fat… and I’m like laughing because I don’t care but at the same time I know I need to get my ass in shape… I’m starting ju jitsu classes this next week and I’m also going back into my schedule of working out a lot, travelling a lot has thrown me off with non exercise and eating at crazy times unhealthy shit. I officially decided that I’m losing weight… but of course I laugh at her comment and mention how if I actually didn’t have a such a strong self esteem I would actually be offended.. she laughs, I’m sure that’s one of those comments that gets to her and improves the way she thinks about me anytime in the future.
Get to the room… take off all her clothes… this is what it’s all about… perfect breasts… perfect ass… her waist is soo thin it’s ridiculous… the sex was soo good, she was really flexible… this is what I got in the game for… good times.
Like my friend Mr M says “He who dares wins”.
Thanks for reading,
Dahunter
Tuesday, January 8, 2008
New York Aftermath
So new york was intense... 10 days of going on every single night, sometimes staying up till 6-8 AM, drinking every day, meeting all kinds of people, and doing a bootcamp at the end to finalize it all... yet somehow we made it out alive.
One of the main things that I did the entire time was only talk to girls that I considered 9's or 10's. I never approached anything less than that unless it was to strategically end up with a 9 or a 10, as a result I only got laid once (with massive LMR) where I could have probably got laid more otherwise. Let me tell you guys, this is not an easy task.
First of all, the amount of 9's or 10's in any bar or club is limited, which makes it much harder to do because you can't fuck up. The number of errors you can make when you are talking to a 10 is very limited, they know they have a lot of options so they are much more willing to walk away at the slightest sign of discomfort.
Another thing is that if you want to do this, you probably have to do this at clubs, which are prolly harder than bars, because where a club will have 3 - 10 really hot girls (depending where you go), a bar will almost always have only a couple or none at all.
Another thing that makes it harder is that the hotter she is, the more likely that she is dating a guy already, and the hotter she is, the more likely the guy is happy with her and wants to marry her. It's not uncommon for 10's to have been engaged or married at a really young age.
This is not only harder in field, but also if you're doing day 2 meetups with them then be prepared to find even more resistance. I would send out a message with a hilarious role play that was thought of by Braddock and me, and where an 8 would laugh and go along with it a 9 or 10 will just reply with something like "lol that's funny", giving you nothing and adding nothing themselves. I used to get pissed before but I'm starting to get more used to this and internalizing that that's the way they relate to the world.
A good example was when I kept sending this girl what I considered to be really funny text messages, and I wouldn't get any response. I did that for a few weeks with no response at all. Then I went to the bar she bartends for, and she told me about the joke she was thinking about sending me but hadn't, and then got me free drinks for me and my friends all night, and invited me to her christmas dinner (which I didn't go to... never go to her territory or you will get slaughtered... specially a 10 since you will end up competing with all her orbiters).
I recommend doing the "only approach 10's", but here are a few suggestions so you are prepared in advanced:
- have something on the side, otherwise you may have to get prepared for a few nights without getting laid.
- be prepared for 10x the rejections... actually, I take that back. 10's won't reject you, they are usually really nice since they enjoy the attention, but be prepared for them to just drift of to something else if you don’t get your A game.
- Do lots of takeaways. The best way to deal with them is to switch the frame on them (that they are hitting on you), be interesting, and take it away. The same TMM model applies it just has to be applied with more accuracy to be successful.
- Use lots of roleplays and be playful. Using roleplays is a one-fits-all way to control the frame, not be reactive (or be reactive in a funny way), and pass any shit tests that girls may give you. It's girl talk to it's highest form. You can find a lot of money routines and roleplays at the routines manual. Look for Braddock's roleplays in there, they are absolute money.
Which leads me to hanging out with Braddock. Hanging out with Braddock is always awesome... he's one of the best PUA's I know and one of those people I'm proud to call a friend. Whenever I meet someone that is as intense as I am about improving their life, I automatically start to analyze all of their patterns and behaviours so I can model all the things that make them successful. Braddock is full of traits that make his game and his ability to relate to others pretty impressive.
There are several principles at work here that I got from our trip, so I'll try to put them in here if any of you guys have sticking points that relate or if you guys want to improve some things about your game that also relate to this.
Personality-wise Braddock is one of the most positive people I've met. We could be in the shittiest bar at 5 am were there were no good sets and he's still having a good time, whereas I would probably get pissed and want to leave or something. This is something that relates to the book "The Power of Now", being in the moment or "Being outside your head" as TD would say, and it's something I've become more aware of, so it's always good to see someone that applies that principle to a higher degree.
Signs that you're in the moment or outside your head:
- You can have a conversation with anyone at any time, and not think it's useless and that you are just wasting your time.
- You go out and you don't make excuses. Things like "I worked too much today", "I have a big day tomorrow", "I need to read more material before I talk to anyone"... they all seem dumb to you.
- You are interested in everybody and anything that is in the room you are at at the moment.
Another thing that I noticed Braddock is particularly good at is getting girls to chase after him.
"Look at my friend... what's wrong with her... she's just not herself right now... look at her she's all over your friend"
(Meanwhile we're both watching this girl chase after Braddock while he keeps playfully pushing her away... haha)
I'm always glad that I have learned how to add value into girls lives so that the script is flipped and they are the ones that chase after me... and watching Braddock do this masterfully makes me realize that learning how to game is so much more worth it than we think when we first start.
Basically what he does is he keeps his body language always looking forward, head and shoulders aligned, and he will look at them and say something funny, and then he will go back to his normal posture and they will come back looking for more of his attention. Withdrawing attention and breaking your own state are essential to get these results. That’s how he closed a solid 9 while we were in NY.
Another big revelation for New York is about failing. It's one thing to logically know that failing is part of the process of becoming successful, but it's another thing when you have it internalized to the point where anything negative that happens, you analyze it, extract the lesson and then you let it go.
Winners are the guys that fail the most often. NOT the guys that get them all right. Winners fail way more than anybody else, and that's what makes them good.
I already apply this principle a lot, but a lot of times when I have a big breakthrough is just applying the same principle but in a different area of my life or my game. In this case, I kinda had to go through the same process but on day 2 timebridging. Specially for gaming 10's only, it’s really important to accept that not every girl will respond exactly the way you want even if your game is right on the spot.
One of the things that I also realized this weekend, is that there’s a scale of how hard and how easy it is for some guys to get good. Occasionally I’ll run into a guy that just needs that tipping point to make his game an avalanche.
Take one of our students this weekend. The guy’s name might as well have been James Bond. He’s actually in the military, and he has the same rank as James Bond has in the movies. He was one of the best story tellers I’ve ever seen, really charming guy and he had a british accent. One of those guys who’s brain’s operate in such an awesome wavelength they’re awesome people to hang out with.
For guys like that, learning game is like me trying to figure out how my new tv works. Sure, it takes some time and you have to plug it in see how it works and you have to adjust the colors and maybe hook up the speakers, but with a bit of an effort you are set. For most of us though, it’s not that simple. It’s not that you are lesser it’s just that their skills are very strong in relating to others while your skills may be in doing different tasks such as something more complex and more logical. For most of us, we first have to build the TV and then learn how to use it.
When it comes to being good with girls, most of us will have to make deep rooted personality changes in order to even start becoming attractive to women, vs the guys that are already attractive but they just need to actually go and talk to the girls and kino escalate.
Most of guys are either not talkative enough, too serious, too insecure about themselves, too strange of a sense of humor, too nervous, among many many others… and I’ve been there, I’ve been the quiet guy that sits in the corner while the girl he brought gets gamed by an outgoing guy without being able to do anything about it.
There’s not a day that passes that I’m not glad I made the decision to improve myself, after a lot of work I’ve now been the guy on the other side of the window that steals the other person’s girl while he watches helpless. That’s why when I meet a student that’s just starting out, I know what he has to go through, and it’s soo much, there’s soo much trial and error involved, that I’m glad to point out principles they need to be aware of so they can take their game light years ahead that if he was by himself.
Looking back, I was in the community for almost three years, just me in Guatemala, the only person that knew about the “pickup scene” in my country back in the day. Trust me, I tried finding them and there was nobody. All I had was a forum to read everyday and advice that sounded like it would work from guys that sounded like they knew what they were doing.
I never stopped though, looking back at my game I probably sucked way more than I think, but I always had this feeling that somehow things were going to work out for me, that’s what kept me going.
I still have a long way to go, but it’s good to look around and see that you are at the level always wanted to be… where you have several girls that want you more than anybody else in the whole world, and that you have the choice if you wanted to stay with one of them or see them for a while.
What I’m saying I guess, is that if I’ve gotten to the point where sleeping with girls is not a problem, and you can actually be picky about the girls I want to see, then you can too, keep doing sets and you will see the results sooner than you think.
So that's it for me today... I leave you guys with some of my favorite quotes for the past few days…
“Bam bam bam, takada takada takada… Excuse me sir, did you just say that about my wife… I’m sorry sir, but I’m gonna have to break your leg” - Bas Rutten
“All you do is eat fruit and touch yourself… fuck you!” - Walk Hard (The Movie)
“Come oon, get on wid it
Do what?
Do what you came to do
Do what!?
IT!!!”
“He’s just good at life”
Braddock on his brother
“It’s cool, my dad owns this place”
Braddock, justifying how we jumped into the dj booth so we could game the two 10’s that were there. We were kicked out shortly from the booth unfortunately lol.
Good times.
Dahunter
One of the main things that I did the entire time was only talk to girls that I considered 9's or 10's. I never approached anything less than that unless it was to strategically end up with a 9 or a 10, as a result I only got laid once (with massive LMR) where I could have probably got laid more otherwise. Let me tell you guys, this is not an easy task.
First of all, the amount of 9's or 10's in any bar or club is limited, which makes it much harder to do because you can't fuck up. The number of errors you can make when you are talking to a 10 is very limited, they know they have a lot of options so they are much more willing to walk away at the slightest sign of discomfort.
Another thing is that if you want to do this, you probably have to do this at clubs, which are prolly harder than bars, because where a club will have 3 - 10 really hot girls (depending where you go), a bar will almost always have only a couple or none at all.
Another thing that makes it harder is that the hotter she is, the more likely that she is dating a guy already, and the hotter she is, the more likely the guy is happy with her and wants to marry her. It's not uncommon for 10's to have been engaged or married at a really young age.
This is not only harder in field, but also if you're doing day 2 meetups with them then be prepared to find even more resistance. I would send out a message with a hilarious role play that was thought of by Braddock and me, and where an 8 would laugh and go along with it a 9 or 10 will just reply with something like "lol that's funny", giving you nothing and adding nothing themselves. I used to get pissed before but I'm starting to get more used to this and internalizing that that's the way they relate to the world.
A good example was when I kept sending this girl what I considered to be really funny text messages, and I wouldn't get any response. I did that for a few weeks with no response at all. Then I went to the bar she bartends for, and she told me about the joke she was thinking about sending me but hadn't, and then got me free drinks for me and my friends all night, and invited me to her christmas dinner (which I didn't go to... never go to her territory or you will get slaughtered... specially a 10 since you will end up competing with all her orbiters).
I recommend doing the "only approach 10's", but here are a few suggestions so you are prepared in advanced:
- have something on the side, otherwise you may have to get prepared for a few nights without getting laid.
- be prepared for 10x the rejections... actually, I take that back. 10's won't reject you, they are usually really nice since they enjoy the attention, but be prepared for them to just drift of to something else if you don’t get your A game.
- Do lots of takeaways. The best way to deal with them is to switch the frame on them (that they are hitting on you), be interesting, and take it away. The same TMM model applies it just has to be applied with more accuracy to be successful.
- Use lots of roleplays and be playful. Using roleplays is a one-fits-all way to control the frame, not be reactive (or be reactive in a funny way), and pass any shit tests that girls may give you. It's girl talk to it's highest form. You can find a lot of money routines and roleplays at the routines manual. Look for Braddock's roleplays in there, they are absolute money.
Which leads me to hanging out with Braddock. Hanging out with Braddock is always awesome... he's one of the best PUA's I know and one of those people I'm proud to call a friend. Whenever I meet someone that is as intense as I am about improving their life, I automatically start to analyze all of their patterns and behaviours so I can model all the things that make them successful. Braddock is full of traits that make his game and his ability to relate to others pretty impressive.
There are several principles at work here that I got from our trip, so I'll try to put them in here if any of you guys have sticking points that relate or if you guys want to improve some things about your game that also relate to this.
Personality-wise Braddock is one of the most positive people I've met. We could be in the shittiest bar at 5 am were there were no good sets and he's still having a good time, whereas I would probably get pissed and want to leave or something. This is something that relates to the book "The Power of Now", being in the moment or "Being outside your head" as TD would say, and it's something I've become more aware of, so it's always good to see someone that applies that principle to a higher degree.
Signs that you're in the moment or outside your head:
- You can have a conversation with anyone at any time, and not think it's useless and that you are just wasting your time.
- You go out and you don't make excuses. Things like "I worked too much today", "I have a big day tomorrow", "I need to read more material before I talk to anyone"... they all seem dumb to you.
- You are interested in everybody and anything that is in the room you are at at the moment.
Another thing that I noticed Braddock is particularly good at is getting girls to chase after him.
"Look at my friend... what's wrong with her... she's just not herself right now... look at her she's all over your friend"
(Meanwhile we're both watching this girl chase after Braddock while he keeps playfully pushing her away... haha)
I'm always glad that I have learned how to add value into girls lives so that the script is flipped and they are the ones that chase after me... and watching Braddock do this masterfully makes me realize that learning how to game is so much more worth it than we think when we first start.
Basically what he does is he keeps his body language always looking forward, head and shoulders aligned, and he will look at them and say something funny, and then he will go back to his normal posture and they will come back looking for more of his attention. Withdrawing attention and breaking your own state are essential to get these results. That’s how he closed a solid 9 while we were in NY.
Another big revelation for New York is about failing. It's one thing to logically know that failing is part of the process of becoming successful, but it's another thing when you have it internalized to the point where anything negative that happens, you analyze it, extract the lesson and then you let it go.
Winners are the guys that fail the most often. NOT the guys that get them all right. Winners fail way more than anybody else, and that's what makes them good.
I already apply this principle a lot, but a lot of times when I have a big breakthrough is just applying the same principle but in a different area of my life or my game. In this case, I kinda had to go through the same process but on day 2 timebridging. Specially for gaming 10's only, it’s really important to accept that not every girl will respond exactly the way you want even if your game is right on the spot.
One of the things that I also realized this weekend, is that there’s a scale of how hard and how easy it is for some guys to get good. Occasionally I’ll run into a guy that just needs that tipping point to make his game an avalanche.
Take one of our students this weekend. The guy’s name might as well have been James Bond. He’s actually in the military, and he has the same rank as James Bond has in the movies. He was one of the best story tellers I’ve ever seen, really charming guy and he had a british accent. One of those guys who’s brain’s operate in such an awesome wavelength they’re awesome people to hang out with.
For guys like that, learning game is like me trying to figure out how my new tv works. Sure, it takes some time and you have to plug it in see how it works and you have to adjust the colors and maybe hook up the speakers, but with a bit of an effort you are set. For most of us though, it’s not that simple. It’s not that you are lesser it’s just that their skills are very strong in relating to others while your skills may be in doing different tasks such as something more complex and more logical. For most of us, we first have to build the TV and then learn how to use it.
When it comes to being good with girls, most of us will have to make deep rooted personality changes in order to even start becoming attractive to women, vs the guys that are already attractive but they just need to actually go and talk to the girls and kino escalate.
Most of guys are either not talkative enough, too serious, too insecure about themselves, too strange of a sense of humor, too nervous, among many many others… and I’ve been there, I’ve been the quiet guy that sits in the corner while the girl he brought gets gamed by an outgoing guy without being able to do anything about it.
There’s not a day that passes that I’m not glad I made the decision to improve myself, after a lot of work I’ve now been the guy on the other side of the window that steals the other person’s girl while he watches helpless. That’s why when I meet a student that’s just starting out, I know what he has to go through, and it’s soo much, there’s soo much trial and error involved, that I’m glad to point out principles they need to be aware of so they can take their game light years ahead that if he was by himself.
Looking back, I was in the community for almost three years, just me in Guatemala, the only person that knew about the “pickup scene” in my country back in the day. Trust me, I tried finding them and there was nobody. All I had was a forum to read everyday and advice that sounded like it would work from guys that sounded like they knew what they were doing.
I never stopped though, looking back at my game I probably sucked way more than I think, but I always had this feeling that somehow things were going to work out for me, that’s what kept me going.
I still have a long way to go, but it’s good to look around and see that you are at the level always wanted to be… where you have several girls that want you more than anybody else in the whole world, and that you have the choice if you wanted to stay with one of them or see them for a while.
What I’m saying I guess, is that if I’ve gotten to the point where sleeping with girls is not a problem, and you can actually be picky about the girls I want to see, then you can too, keep doing sets and you will see the results sooner than you think.
So that's it for me today... I leave you guys with some of my favorite quotes for the past few days…
“Bam bam bam, takada takada takada… Excuse me sir, did you just say that about my wife… I’m sorry sir, but I’m gonna have to break your leg” - Bas Rutten
“All you do is eat fruit and touch yourself… fuck you!” - Walk Hard (The Movie)
“Come oon, get on wid it
Do what?
Do what you came to do
Do what!?
IT!!!”
“He’s just good at life”
Braddock on his brother
“It’s cool, my dad owns this place”
Braddock, justifying how we jumped into the dj booth so we could game the two 10’s that were there. We were kicked out shortly from the booth unfortunately lol.
Good times.
Dahunter
Friday, December 21, 2007
New York
Braddock and I are going to be in New York from the 29th of this month.
For those of you that don't know, Braddock and I designed a special type of training for students that already took a bootcamp and are at intermediate level. We basically figured out all the things that a medium level needs in order to explode his game to the next level.
Here's an email from our last student from our program:
Hey Dahunter,
What's up man. Things have been going great. I've number closed 3 times since then, and kissed closed.
Even better, I picked up a girl last friday, and had a day 2 last thursday and closed the deal. Your kiss/stop, kiss/stop rutine worked super well. Each time I went further, and first time, the girl was fighting to push me further.
The sticking point I have now is that I'm too aggressive. It's amazing how far you can push it, but for the first time I'm going too far. Especially with Social circle game. Still learning how to read girls, get right to their comfort, and then start to push them. I need more practice, but look forward to talking to you in the future for more calibration.
I wrote to Jeremy telling him you guys did an awesome job. It's definetly worth it. Thanks again man, things are going great.
-[name edited for privacy]
We basically take up to 3 guys for two days, you get 10 hours of theory and two nights out.
Dec 29 and Dec 30
If you're interested, email me at dahunter@themysterymethod.com
Here's a link to a review of our program on the forums
Cheers,
Dahunter
For those of you that don't know, Braddock and I designed a special type of training for students that already took a bootcamp and are at intermediate level. We basically figured out all the things that a medium level needs in order to explode his game to the next level.
Here's an email from our last student from our program:
Hey Dahunter,
What's up man. Things have been going great. I've number closed 3 times since then, and kissed closed.
Even better, I picked up a girl last friday, and had a day 2 last thursday and closed the deal. Your kiss/stop, kiss/stop rutine worked super well. Each time I went further, and first time, the girl was fighting to push me further.
The sticking point I have now is that I'm too aggressive. It's amazing how far you can push it, but for the first time I'm going too far. Especially with Social circle game. Still learning how to read girls, get right to their comfort, and then start to push them. I need more practice, but look forward to talking to you in the future for more calibration.
I wrote to Jeremy telling him you guys did an awesome job. It's definetly worth it. Thanks again man, things are going great.
-[name edited for privacy]
We basically take up to 3 guys for two days, you get 10 hours of theory and two nights out.
Dec 29 and Dec 30
If you're interested, email me at dahunter@themysterymethod.com
Here's a link to a review of our program on the forums
Cheers,
Dahunter
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